Chinese Slang – 很解 hěnjiě

解 jiě

Adj./ V. (Literal meaning is “untied”)

This is an internet slang in Chinese. It describes the feeling when you originally had good feelings toward someone, but because of certain words or actions, your interest immediately disappears. It can also mean that the vibe becomes awkward or the mood is ruined.

他tā在zài約會yuēhuì時shí一直yìzhí炫耀xuànyào錢qián， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě他tā在zài约会yuēhuì时shí一直yìzhí炫耀xuànyào钱qián， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě
He kept showing off his money on the date—it was such a mood killer.

她tā對duì服務生fúwùshēng超chāo沒méi禮貌lǐmào，，一整個yìzhěngge讓ràng我wǒ很hěn解jiě她tā对duì服务员fúwùyuán超chāo没méi礼貌lǐmào，，一整个yìzhěngge让ràng我wǒ很hěn解jiě
She was super rude to the waiter—it completely killed my vibe.

我wǒ一yì聽tīng到dào他tā會huì吃chī狗gǒu肉ròu， 馬上mǎshàng解jiě了le我wǒ一yì听tīng到dào他tā会huì吃chī狗gǒu肉ròu， 马上mǎshàng解jiě了le
he moment I heard he eats dog meat, I was totally turned off.

沒想到méixiǎngdào他tā是shì那種nàzhǒng喝醉hēzuì後hòu會huì大哭dàkū大鬧dànào的de人rén， 超chāo解jiě没想到méixiǎngdào他tā是shì那种nàzhǒng喝醉hēzuì后hòu会huì大哭dàkū大闹dànào的de人rén， 超chāo解jiě
I didn’t expect him to be the type who cries and throws a fit when drunk—so off-putting.

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This slang term 很解 hěnjiě can also describe a situation where you were feeling turned on or in the mood for sex, but then the other person says or does something that completely kills your desire.

A：我wǒ那天nàtiān約yuē的de那個nàge男生nánshēng啊a， 做zuò的de時候shíhòu一直yìzhí要yào我wǒ回答huídá爽shuǎng不爽bùshuǎng， 害hài我wǒ都dōu沒méi感覺gǎnjué了le我wǒ那天nàtiān约yuē的de那个nàge男生nánshēng啊a， 做zuò的de时候shíhou一直yìzhí要yào我wǒ回答huídá爽shuǎng不爽bùshuǎng， 害hài我wǒ都dōu没méi感觉gǎnjué了le
The guy I hooked up with that day kept asking me if I was feeling good while we were doing it—it completely killed the mood for me.

B：男生nánshēng真的zhēnde很hěn愛ài問wèn這個zhège， 超chāo解jiě的de男生nánshēng真的zhēnde很hěn爱ài问wèn这个zhège， 超chāo解jiě的de
Guys really love asking that—it’s such a turn-off.

A：你nǐ那天nàtiān約yuē的de那個nàge男生nánshēng呢ne？ 他tā怎麼樣zěnmeyàng？ 你nǐ那天nàtiān约yuē的de那个nàge男生nánshēng呢ne？ 他tā怎么样zěnmeyàng？
How about the guy you met that day? How was he?

B：他tā更gèng解jiě！ 他tā下面xiàmiàn好hǎo臭chòu， 我wǒ受不了shòubùliǎo直接zhíjiē離開líkāi他tā更gèng解jiě！ 他tā下面xiàmian好hǎo臭chòu， 我wǒ受不了shòubùliǎo直接zhíjiē离开líkāi
He was even worse! Down there smelled so bad, I couldn’t take it and just left.

A：天啊tiāna！ 這個zhège也yě太tài解jiě！ 天啊tiāna！ 这个zhège也yě太tài解jiě！
Oh my god! That’s seriously a mood killer!

호감이 사라지다

他tā經常jīngcháng和hé別bié的de女生nǚshēng聯絡liánluò， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě他tā经常jīngcháng和hé别bié的de女生nǚshēng联络liánluò， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě
그가 다른 여자와 자주 연락하는 걸 보고 호감이 사라졌다.

看kàn他tā不bù守shǒu承諾chéngnuò， 我wǒ對duì他tā完全wánquán解jiě了le看kàn他tā不bù守shǒu承诺chéngnuò， 我wǒ对duì他tā完全wánquán解jiě了le
약속을 지키지 않는 모습을 보고 호감이 사라졌다.

興ざめする

他tā在zài聊天liáotiān中zhōng一直yìzhí看kàn手機shǒujī， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě他tā在zài聊天liáotiān中zhōng一直yìzhí看kàn手机shǒujī， 真的zhēnde很hěn解jiě
彼が話の途中でスマホばかり見ていたので、興ざめした。

他tā把bǎ整個zhěngge聊天liáotiān變成biànchéng自誇zìkuā， 讓ràng我wǒ完全wánquán解jiě了le他tā把bǎ整个zhěngge聊天liáotiān变成biànchéng自夸zìkuā， 让ràng我wǒ完全wánquán解jiě了le
彼が話を全部自分の自慢話にして、興ざめした。